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In this subchapter, the question “How do I deal with failures” is adressed.
- “How do i make difficult decisions”
To answer this question, it is helpful to start with an example. In the further course, the theory behind the decision making process will be discussed, so that finally the question "How to make difficult decisions?
Table of contents
- Table of contents
- 👍🏼 Good to know first
- Why do people fail? The 10x Rule
- Why do people the same mistake?
- 😎 How do I deal with failures?
- 🔅 Mental models to avoid failures in life?
👍🏼 Good to know first
To answer the question how to deal with failures it is good to know why people fail and why people make the same mistakes again and again in life.
Why do people fail? The 10x Rule
To answer the question how do i deal with failures? must first be considered why people make mistakes at all. Most people fail only because they are operating at the wrong degree of action. To simplify action, we are going to break down your choices into four simple categories or degrees of action. Your four choices are:
At the top of the pyramid, which represents the lowest proportion of effort, are people how do nothing, they no longer taking actions to move and they give up. The next group of People are the retreater. They are people who take actins in reverse – probably in order to avoid negative experiences that they imagine will come as a result of taking action. The most people in society choose to do normal levels of action. People that appears on the surface to be taking the necessary amounts of action and to be “normal”, spend their lives talking enough action to appear avarea and create normal lives, marriages, and careers. The last option which a person can choose is to take massive action. There must be the proportion of effort max. They starts when you first create new problems for yourself and second start to receive criticism and warning from others. (Cardone, 2011)
Cardonge , G. say in his Book: “ In this moment you have to move on and stay strong. This activity will break you out of the hypnotic state of mediocrity that you've been taught to accept”
Why do people the same mistake?
It is not enough to ask why people lose. It must also be understood why people keep making the same mistakes in life. In addition, House, M. has shown 9️⃣ criteria in his blog common causes of very bad decisions that can be derived why the same mistakes happen again and again. If they don't change them in their life they will never get out of their vicious circle. (House, 2020)
9️⃣ criteria are:
😎 How do I deal with failures?
To answer the question „How do I deal with failures“, it is important to acknowledge that everyone will at some point fail in his life and than have to stand up and move on.
There are a large number of methods and approaches to deal with errors. From my point of view, I have picked out the most important 4 bullet points that are necessary to move forward in life.
😪 … In case of failures or wrong decisions, the emotions must be given free space so that they can unfold. Thinking about emotions helps you to deal better with future scenarios. Failure helps you to understand and learn important things in life, if you are open to change and learn from it. Failure must be seen as a steppingstone to the goals set.
💡 … Once you have admitted your mistakes and know what you need to learn from them, you can set a future plan for how to approach them again. Don't waste your time thinking "I'm a failure and I can't do anything". The plan will help you put the information you have learned into practice.
😬 … Face your fears, get out of your comfort zone, try things where you might fail. Only then will you be able to deal with failure and consistently achieve your goals in the long run. (Morin, 2022)
More Information you get under the following link to the paper:
10 Healthy Ways to Bounce Back From Failure
Feeling like a failure is painful, but how you deal with it can be the key to success. Learn from failure so you can bounce back better than before.
🔅 Mental models to avoid failures in life?
You have heard many factors about what failures are and how they arise, but how can you actively counteract them? Mental models is the answere of this Question. The consciousness of every human being can be represented as an operating system. Mental models can thus be seen as apps installed on my operating system. The model of inversion can be used as an easy-to-implement entry model.
You go to the question how can I be happy? Take the question and turn it around: What can I do to make a happy person feel like crap? (MackGil, 2019).
So to be happy: Avoid all enumerations and you are happy !!! This model can be applied to all questions.
👋 Thank you for taking the time to educate yourself on “Deal with failures in life!” I hope you were able to take away something for yourself and your life.
Cardone, G. (2011). The 10X rule: The only difference between success and failure. Wiley.
House, M. (2020, October 1). Common Causes of very bad decisions. https://collabfund.com/blog/bad-decisions
MackGil, G., & Williamson, C. (2019). George Mack: Mental Models 101: How to make better decisions - Modern Wisdom. https://podcastnotes.org/modern-wisdom/macgill/ Morin, A. (29.11.202). 10 healthy Way to cope with failure, https://www.verywellmind.com/healthy-ways-to-cope-with-failure-4163968