Ein Leitsatz der beim Geben von Rat stets beachtet werden sollte ist: Empathy is key!
Was wir tun
Wir schließen von unseren Erfahrungen und der eigenen Sicht der Dinge auf andere. Weil wir denken, dass andere davon profitieren sollten, teilen wir uns mit und betrachten dabei das Problem der anderen Person aus unserer eigenen Perspektive.
Über den "Gesprächsnarzissmus" und wie man guten Rat geben kann:
Das innere "Advice Monster" - Wie es sich bemerkbar macht und wie es uns gelingt, das Monster in Zaum zu halten:
Was wir tun sollten, anstatt Ratschläge zu geben
aktiv zuhören und Fragen stellen
"Listening is a skill. And as with any skill, it degrades if you don't do it enough." - Kate Murphy
Become a Better Listener. Your Family Will Thank You. (Published 2020)
Effective communication skills are more important than ever in our close-quarters existence. On a recent morning, my family was assembled in our customary positions at the kitchen table: my husband, Tom, and I hunched over our computers, while our daughter, wearing headphones, did math problems for remote learning.
Opinion | Talk Less. Listen More. Here's How. (Published 2020)
Lessons in the art of listening, from a C.I.A. agent, a focus group moderator and more. Ms. Murphy is the author of "You're Not Listening: What You're Missing and Why It Matters." When was the last time you listened to someone?
44 Empathy Statements That Will Make You a Great Listener
If you ever watched the iconic show Inside the Actor's Studio, with James Lipton, you know all too well one of the notorious questions he asked during each interview: "What's your favorite word?" I used to wonder what my answer would be to this question if I were ever interviewed on his show.
How to Guide People Without Giving Advice
Giving advice to others gives us a sense of control and status, which may make us feel good but usually isn't all that helpful to the other person. Instead of giving advice, we can guide people to find their own answers through a combination of listening and asking questions.
vom Ratgebenden zum Ratsuchenden
Why you should stop saying "I know exactly how you feel"
Why we should all stop saying "I know exactly how you feel"
A good friend of mine lost her dad some years back. I found her sitting alone outside our workplace, just staring at the horizon. She was absolutely distraught, and I didn't know what to say to her. It's so easy to say the wrong thing to someone who is grieving and vulnerable.
Was heißt das?
do's / dont's:
Buchtipp: sei nicht authentisch!: Warum klug manchmal besser ist als echt. - Stefan Wachtel
Achtung mit ungebetenem Rat
Why You Should Stop Giving Advice (And What to Do Instead)
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